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Stop Tolerating- Start Living: 6 Ways to Actually Make a Fresh Start
There was a season in my life where I'd catch myself standing in the middle of my kitchen, coffee in hand, staring at nothing. Not sad, exactly. Just... stuck. Every single thing you've been tolerating is draining you, slowly, silently, whether you're aware of it or not. Here are 6 areas where one honest shift changes everything.

Elena Zanfei
Jan 315 min read


Why Venting Your Anger Might Be Making It Worse (And What to Do Instead)
What to do with anger and anxiety? Read this before you punch a pillow.

Elena Zanfei
Dec 1, 20255 min read


The Hidden Voice Sabotaging Your Success (And How to Silence It)
You know that voice in your head?
The one that whispers "you're not good enough" when you're about to take a risk.
The one that replays your mistakes on loop while you're trying to fall asleep.

Elena Zanfei
Nov 16, 20255 min read


Why Your Relationships Feel Hard (And the 6 Skills That Actually Help)
Learn the 6 essential relationship skills they never taught you in school. Discover how to communicate better, set boundaries, and build healthier relationships in all areas of your life.

Elena Zanfei
Oct 27, 20255 min read


Empowering Women: Strategies for Growth
Every day, I witness the incredible strength and potential within women who are ready to break free from self-doubt and overwhelm. It’s a journey I know well because I’ve walked it myself. Growth is not just about climbing ladders or hitting goals. It’s about reclaiming your authentic self, nurturing your spirit, and stepping into your power with confidence and grace. So, how do we do this? How do we transform challenges into stepping stones? Let’s explore some empowered wome

Elena Zanfei
Oct 15, 20253 min read


What Are You Afraid to Feel? Understanding Emotional Avoidance
We live in a culture that celebrates busyness, but what if you're not busy because you have too much to do—but because you're running from something you don't want to feel? Learn what emotional avoidance is, why it happens, and the practical steps you can take to stop running and start healing.

Elena Zanfei
Sep 30, 20254 min read


That "Crazy" Idea That Keeps Coming Back: Your Divine North Star
Discover how to recognize divine inspiration vs. fear-based thoughts. Learn the 3-step process to stop living by default and align with your true purpose.

Elena Zanfei
Sep 10, 20255 min read


The Real Meaning of Being CONFIDENT (And Why Most People Get It Wrong)
What does it mean to be C-O-N-F-I-D-E-N-T? True confidence isn't about perfection or never having doubts. It comes from feelings of well-being, acceptance of your body and mind (self-esteem), and belief in your ability, skills, and experience—even when the path gets challenging.

Elena Zanfei
Aug 8, 20258 min read


How to Be a Safe Friend When Someone Is Struggling
Learn how to hold space for someone you love without trying to fix them. Elena shares a heartfelt story about friendship, fear, and true support...

Elena Zanfei
Jun 24, 20253 min read


3 Words That Instantly Turn Burden Into Blessings
Using these 3 simple words will take you from procrastination to momentum...

Elena Zanfei
Jun 1, 20253 min read
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[SUNDAY SOUL NOTE] The Gift of Presence: Finding Joy in What Already Is
True joy isn’t something you earn, it’s something you notice. This Soul Note from Elena Zanfei invites you to rediscover the magic of being fully present and the peace that lives in the now.

Elena Zanfei
May 31, 20253 min read


Why it's so hard to 'LET IT BE'(updated)
We all have an opinion about the way things should be, what people should do, and what they shouldn't do. We have opinions about everything and

Elena Zanfei
May 28, 20254 min read


Tending to the Garden of the Mind: How to Identify and Remove Weeds of Thought
Every garden needs tending. And your mind is no different.
In this week's Soul Note, I invite you to gently examine the thoughts taking root and pull the ones that no longer serve.

Elena Zanfei
May 23, 20252 min read


You Are The Architect Of Your Life
You hold the pen. You shape the path. This Soul Note reminds you that you’re not waiting for life to happen; you’re building it, one choice, one belief, one brave step at a time.

Elena Zanfei
May 17, 20252 min read


A Mother's Strength: Keeping It All Together
A tribute to the quiet strength, resilience, and endless love that mothers carry daily. This Soul Note honors the women who hold it all together, even when it feels like it’s falling apart.

Elena Zanfei
May 9, 20252 min read


Gratitude: The Bridge to What’s Next
There was a time when I believed I had to wait to feel grateful, hit the next milestone, and have it “figured out " to make life easier....

Elena Zanfei
May 3, 20252 min read


What I have in common with Amber Heard
A raw, powerful reflection from Elena on trauma, diagnosis, and liberation. Discover the unexpected thing she shares with Amber Heard — and how she healed beyond the label.

Elena Zanfei
Apr 24, 20253 min read


Sunday Soul Note - Stillness Speaks
We forget to celebrate life for the miracle it is...

Elena Zanfei
Apr 23, 20251 min read


Why we're so attracted to Inspirational QUOTES
There is a reason why we are so attracted to the emotional charge created by quotes...

Elena Zanfei
Mar 15, 20253 min read



Elena Zanfei
Dec 20, 20240 min read
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